Sharing our story on Huffington Post Live

Last night we had the opportunity to be on Huffington Post Live to talk about our weight loss experience. We’ve been getting a lot of requests to be on tv lately and I must admit this kind of makes me uncomfortable. I’m still really self conscious and haven’t settled into my new skin yet. Last night I felt like we were on a panel with a bunch of media pros!

Everyone on the panel had such amazing stories and it was just fun to talk to them about their experiences. It is always great to have someone say exactly what you’re thinking because in those moments you know you’re not alone in your experience or struggle. It’s really an eye opening experience and that is why it’s great that we are able to share our story of losing weight and losing it together.

The time went by so quickly. I must admit by the time I made it doing the show I was tired. I woke up early yesterday morning to do Group Power (weight training) at the gym and yesterday afternoon I did a work out in the pool that really tuckered me out. When 7:30pm rolled around I was really tired and ready to go to bed. I tried very hard to amp it up for the show.

Like I mentioned the time went by really quickly and it was kind of hard to join in the conversation. There are some points I wanted to take a little more about here on the blog.

1. It is important to keep a eating and workout routine you can stick with for years. I often see people start off gung ho at the gym and then they have to back off and end up stopping because they can’t keep up. Brian said the same thing about food. Fad diets aren’t something you can keep up over time. Once you stop with the program you have to go back into the real world and you’re probably going to gain the weight back. Learn about healthy eating and commit to a lifestyle change because it definitely will change your life and keep it that way.

I also loved when Brian talked about his unsuccessful gastric bypass surgery. This is my problem with the gastric bypass surgery: it’s not always teaching you to change your life. I love that he said the problem was with him because he was eating the same foods and doing the same things and he ended up stretching his stomach back to normal size.

2. We carry food with us every where we go. We have coolers for short trips, long trips, medium sized trips. Now that we’re traveling more we’re going to have to get an airplane cooler too! I’ve written about the times when I didn’t have food with me and it was difficult. Not making the time to pack some food to take with me could have caused me problems, but I was ok. Some other people won’t be as lucky! There is no shame in carrying food with you and pulling it out. Don’t be afraid to be different!

3. Willie and I did lose the weight together. We are both blessed that we did have a strong support system in each other. Without a strong support system in place, it will be hard. It is going to be hard for some people in your life to accept your new change and if it causes more problems than not you have to let those people go! The journey is hard but totally worth it so include the people in your life that want to see you succeed and not fail.

4. There was talk about what you can do if you’re extremely overweight. Willie was his heaviest at 492 and he literally walked about 150 pounds. That is all he did.

5. It seems we didn’t have to some experience as everyone else when it comes to the gym. I needed to go to the gym to get away from the distractions. If I worked out at home, I’m not sure it would have worked for me. My house is filled with distractions: clocks in my face, computer, television, pets, food and lack of inspiration. I think it’s easier to call it quits when you’re at home. If I’m at the gym at least I drove there got out of the car and had to work it. If I quit or don’t start, I’ve already wasted time and I hate wasting time.

Those are all the points I wanted to make. Please remember we are always here to answer questions and comments!

Conversations of a weight loss plateau at Torrey …

Conversations of a weight loss plateau at Torrey Pines Reserve

It’s sad to say but the trip to San Diego is over. We’re currently on the plane flying home, so this is good time to blog. We had a great amazing time while we were here and met some really great people. We had a chance to share our story which is something we didn’t anticipate. It’s funny how our shirts attract people and we just end up talking to everyone. It’s super great to be in a position to tell our story and inspire others to accomplish ANY goal they might have in life. Friday morning Willie and I…

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Changes in the wardrobe

Changes in the wardrobe

I remembered hating clothes shopping with my mom when I was a kid. I was always the bigger kid in the family and I was always ready to leave the clothing store as soon as we walked in. I don’t know what it is about clothes or just notion of shopping for clothes that always bothered me. I carried that feeling for the longest time. There’s an old saying, “Clothes make the man” or something like that. In a sense, it’s true. You are how you dress. I started my weight loss journey at 492 pounds. My clothes definitely reflected…

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It’s not a diet. It’s healthy …

It’s not a diet.  It’s healthy lifestyle changes to lose weight.

The biggest piece of advice we can give you is to stop dieting.  It’s not a diet; it’s healthy lifestyle CHANGES to lose weight and keep it off. A lifestyle change is very difficult, especially for the people in your life.  We had so many problems with our friends and family because it wasn’t only a change for us, it was a change for them too.  Both Willie and I were overweight our entire lives and our weight defined us.  When it was time to make a change things did get very sticky and possibly people didn’t take us too seriously. For people who…

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A day of (state) resolutions

A day of (state) resolutions

After running the Austin 10/20, Willie and I were honored with state resolutions on the floor of the Texas State Capitol.  Our weight loss achievements are now a part of Texas state history!  This is/was such a honor for us and definitely a moment we won’t forget.  We were honored alongside our friend Richard and Amie James (for creating a healthier community by creating The Gusher Marathon), Iram Leon (for winning the Gusher Marathon while pushing his daughter and just plain winning at life), and Felix Lugo (who ran his 50th marathon holding the American flag at The Gusher).  We…

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Thanks for your support

Thanks for your support

Talk about a crazy day! We had no idea the CNN story would cause this much buzz and definitely wasn’t something we were looking for by talking about our journey. Did you see they did a small bit on the actual news channel too? I missed it, but I heard all about it. Willie and I are not the type of people to seek attention. I originally started the blog because people were asking so many questions, I just wanted a place to put it down so I didn’t have to keep repeating myself. The only thing we ever wanted…

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Back To The Basics: So you want to …

Back To The Basics: So you want to lose the weight. Now what?

Losing a significant amount of weight is a huge task so if you’re deciding to take on the battle, congrats to you. We woke up one day and just decided to lose the weight, but I don’t think we were very smart about the process. This is your chance to learn from our mistakes. You know the commercials always say “consult with a doctor before engaging in any physical activity or diet plan?” You should definitely do that because we did NOT and it opened up a huge can of worms for us. It took a lot for me to…

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The 80/20 Rule of Eating

The 80/20 Rule of Eating

When we first started our weight loss journey I read a lot of magazine articles about people losing weight, hitting a plateau, and keeping the weight off.  I was interested in reading what other people had to say about losing weight.  Whether someone was trying to lose 10 pounds or 100 pounds, I wanted to know the challenges and victories they experienced along the way.  That’s when I learned the 80/20 rule of eating: Don’t beat yourself up because you eat “bad” 20% of the time when you eat right 80% of the time. This is something I really struggle…

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Finding balance

Finding balance

Losing weight is and changing our lifestyle was the easiest and hardest thing we’ve ever done. I know you’ve heard that plenty of times here already, and you’ll probably hear it again many times. But those words are the truth and something everyone needs to know! The first thing people always say to me when talking about losing weight is they don’t have enough time to go to the gym or cook the food, but is that really true? There was definitely some self-evaluation that went on when we started our journey. I spent a lot of time doing things…

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Why do I blog?

Why do I blog?

The short answer to the question: I choose to blog because I’m asked a ton of questions every day about what we did, how we do it and how has it changed our life. By blogging, the story, the experience and my daily life will be here for people to read or not read. The lifestyle change journey is long and continues every day and sometimes people do want a detailed account of what we did to make it work. Others sometimes just want the short version so the blog gives everyone what they want. Blogging is hard because it’s…

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Everything Is New Again

Everything Is New Again

Losing the weight has been one of the biggest accomplishments in life. Everything seems so attainable and there is nothing I feel like I can’t do. I’m opening up more to people which means I’m making new friends. I’m trying new things, so I am developing new interests. Most importantly, I’m taking risks that I never would have taken before when I was larger. It’s amazing just how different I am from before. Losing the weight was just not a physical change, it was a mental and emotional change also. People look up to me as this great inspiring force…

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