Wondering what is the point, is the point.

What’s the point? When things aren’t going my way, this is how I feel. It’s easy to question why to continue the path or even why to keep trying at something. Wondering what is the point, is the point.

I won’t sugar coat things for you. Things haven’t been going my way. Every time I feel like I’ve made it over one hurdle then I feel like I’m hit with another roadblock. Life is a tricky thing and navigating it gets rough for me. I’m a sensitive person. I have a hard exterior, but I do take on other people’s pain? hurt? sorrow? distress? This sometimes leaves me in a place where I don’t know how to deal with my own stuff. I need to remember that I need to take care of myself before taking care of others.

What is the point?

Back to the point, it’s good to wonder about what is the point. This gives a moment of self-reflection and a time to rebalance. It’s those times that I need to take a step back from the situation to see what is really going on.

It’s hard to see the whole picture when I’m stuck in the middle of the situation.

It’s VERY easy to get wrapped up in the day to day and get stuck in the details. It’s hard to see past the problems and not always see the good behind it all. I urge you to take a few moments to stop to see what is the point and why you do the things you do.

I’ve learned these are the moments when I see the good in myself and what I’m trying to accomplish. These are the moments of true realizations of why I chose the path I’ve taken. I’ve also learned these are the moments when I’ve realized I’m wasting my time and having been efficient in tackling a task.

I get wrapped up in routine and patterns and wondering what is the point makes me re-evaluate how I look and deal with certain situations. Sometimes a fresh perspective is needed.  Sometimes it’s just best to step away to wonder what is the point to find the endpoint.  Sometimes the time is needed to make the easy calls or the hard decisions.

What is the point? The point is there is always a solution to a problem. The point is there is never a problem that is too big that you can’t ask for help. The point is that without trying you will never know what could have happened. The point is never to give up but to approach your problem from a different view.