Wondering what is the point, is the point.

What’s the point? When things aren’t going my way, this is how I feel. It’s easy to question why to continue the path or even why to keep trying at something. Wondering what is the point, is the point.

I won’t sugar coat things for you. Things haven’t been going my way. Every time I feel like I’ve made it over one hurdle then I feel like I’m hit with another roadblock. Life is a tricky thing and navigating it gets rough for me. I’m a sensitive person. I have a hard exterior, but I do take on other people’s pain? hurt? sorrow? distress? This sometimes leaves me in a place where I don’t know how to deal with my own stuff. I need to remember that I need to take care of myself before taking care of others.

What is the point?

Back to the point, it’s good to wonder about what is the point. This gives a moment of self-reflection and a time to rebalance. It’s those times that I need to take a step back from the situation to see what is really going on.

It’s hard to see the whole picture when I’m stuck in the middle of the situation.

It’s VERY easy to get wrapped up in the day to day and get stuck in the details. It’s hard to see past the problems and not always see the good behind it all. I urge you to take a few moments to stop to see what is the point and why you do the things you do.

I’ve learned these are the moments when I see the good in myself and what I’m trying to accomplish. These are the moments of true realizations of why I chose the path I’ve taken. I’ve also learned these are the moments when I’ve realized I’m wasting my time and having been efficient in tackling a task.

I get wrapped up in routine and patterns and wondering what is the point makes me re-evaluate how I look and deal with certain situations. Sometimes a fresh perspective is needed.  Sometimes it’s just best to step away to wonder what is the point to find the endpoint.  Sometimes the time is needed to make the easy calls or the hard decisions.

What is the point? The point is there is always a solution to a problem. The point is there is never a problem that is too big that you can’t ask for help. The point is that without trying you will never know what could have happened. The point is never to give up but to approach your problem from a different view.

There’s nothing holding you back

There’s nothing holding you back

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Do not stop the journey

Do not stop the journey

Good morning, everyone!  I wanted to start off by saying an apology for leaving the blog bare for so long.  It’s been a week and that’s not for lack of wanting to blog, it’s poor time management.  The to-do list is long and the blog is always the last thing on the list.  The blog is going to be a priority for me in 2018 because it’s something I love to do.  I will better manage my time and get the job done. This is a perfect segway into my topic today about carrying on no matter how long it… View Post

It’s a new year

It’s a new year

I’m not too late to send my New Years message into the universe. There may only be a few hours left on January 1, 2018, but I’m going to get this message out there. I’ve been doing this blogging thing for a long time now and this day in the blogosphere is dedicated to people talking about their goals. It’s a new year, a clean slate. Really, did we all wake up and 2017 disappeared from the world? It doesn’t exactly work like that and it’s ok. As those days tick by we are learning things about ourselves, we are… View Post

Monday Motivation: Take the challenge

Monday Motivation: Take the challenge

Happy Monday everyone!  I’ve been trying to catch up on blog business so I can get back to do what I love.  It’s been a life-changing year for me and just when I thought I have my crap together, something else pops up. It’s all been a challenge but that’s what life is about, right? I encourage everyone to take on the challenge.  Don’t let the challenge knock you down.  Face it head on, tackle the challenge, and overcome the challenge. There are plenty of people out there in the world who tell say, “you shouldn’t, you can’t, you don’t have… View Post